My Dirty Boxers

  Y'all that keep side chicks and the single ladies that seek after married men, what is your aim in life? Balance me. (Photo credit: Sonia's status) Sarah my friend hit me up recently to carry my bachelorhood on her head and some of her messages are beginning to ring true in my head, I want to share one part of it in this space today. If we run an independent poll to find out how many premium single ladies are involved in a romantic relationship with married men, we’ll be appalled at the numbers that will jump at us but, can we completely say it’s either party’s fault? Let’s discuss this. I know this topic is quite sensitive, but we have to talk about it at some point, right? If you know anything about me, you know I’m not judgmental as it is not my place to tell you what is right or not but, why do married men feel a need to have side chicks? I must also ask, why do ladies in relationships also feel a need to have some insurance with married men? I can understand the si...

  Look closely, that's Karim Benzema clapping for Ronaldo and the rest of his teammates that made the Ultimate XI in 2017. (Photo credit: Dipo Ogun) The convenient thing to write about today is Karim Benzema and his Ballon d’Or, I am happy for the Frenchman and his achievement, he deserves it beyond words and no one can take anything away from him. What stands out for Benzema is his humility through the years as he kept celebrating winners. He saw Cristiano Ronaldo win the award four times and Luka Modric once and, as seen in the picture in the thumbnail, he was always clapping as a happy guy for his teammates. In life, you have to learn how to be happy for people. If it's not working for you at the moment, you can be happy for those that are shining, it won't take anything from you but bad belle won't let you see the road. I hope you learn from Benzema... Oluwa a wa pelu e o. I am not even in the right place to shalaye today; yesterday has to be the most exhausting...

  I don't know what it is but it's easy to heap it on Liverpool... I'll be fine. (Photo credit: Google) How do you deal with anxiety? Especially the ones that come with loneliness. On a day the weather is bleeding with reckless abandon and the body is shedding some liquids, how do you explain this kind of feeling on a peaceful Sunday afternoon? I can understand for the visit of Liverpool to the Emirates; in a way, I am not particularly afraid of the Kops, we’ve been better this season but it’s a test for everything Arsenal stands for right now and a loss could derail the boys… We stay hoping for the best. Tomorrow is my dad’s remembrance and I bet that has absolutely nothing to do with how I have been feeling of late; Damola said it’s because my kid brother left town and I’m missing him LMAO. Not impossible by the way but I’m not sure that is it. I know a few people would think it’s their fav LOL again, I’m over that even if it’s not exactly easy. The part where I hav...

  I know my gender can most times let me down but today, I want you to know it's not easy and men also cry. (Photo credit: Google) Yesterday was a little weird but not like I didn’t expect it. I understand how the stan culture works and when people choose to stand with someone, they go to any length in defending their superheroes. I know how I go to war when people bring up the obvious weaknesses in Kizz Daniel or when they try to knock the people I like. No hard feelings really; the Laycon post was never to shade the guy or call him dumb, it was my way of appreciating the amazing team that built a narrative around him which worked brilliantly. In hindsight, can we say he is at par with the perception built for him? My answer is no and I’ll leave it there. I had a debate last night with Black and his girlfriend – Becca. It was about the need for men to show emotions when they’re hurt and not bottle it in because society sees men as superhuman beings and should never let the gen...