The dating pool and a broken generation

 

We're gradually becoming a generation of broken people, where do we go from here? (Photo credit: Medium)

This is scary but it is what it is. We can’t deny it, it’s all in our faces and it’s beginning to look like a norm. The implication of this on the emerging generation will even be worse, can rapture happen already?

There are too many damaged people in the world. Each of them trying to get into relationships with fellow damaged people and you can only imagine the outcome. One can even look away from those ones, how about broken humans trying to date pure-hearted individuals? God Abeg!

I was going through some posts on Toni Tones’ TL and all I can say is OMO! To think some people seem to enjoy some bloody revelation on her #TellToniTones; those that are happily married don’t know how lucky they are, the dating pool out there is messy and nearly hopeless.

You know how people pray for the right person but never thought they should be right for whomever they meet too; it’s always clear to see, once y’all have arguments or reason to discuss harsh truth and they only see their partner as the problem without having to look into the mirror, pick race dear.

I’m trying hard not to cite examples from Toni’s page but how can I successfully do that? You see a lady asking for help after going into a threesome with her best friend and her husband, how did you think it would end? They will always meet behind you stupid, what were you thinking?

One said he’s been sleeping with his father’s friend, an elderly man my God! As much as I don’t want to even dabble into anything related to El Jibiti, I can’t pretend like I’m not disgusted, like does the devil own a duplex in y’all’s mind? Y’all don’t fear God at all?

Why are you having a talking stage with about seven people? How won’t you be confused? You’re forming woke and smart, when they outsmart you as it will always end, you’ll run to Toni Tones or Rant HQ and start posting “hide my identity” LOL, your head is not correct my dear.

If you’re in a happy relationship, hold that person close. There’s absolutely nothing meaningful out there. That person you’re eyeing is probably fighting demons and you could also be a rebound object. I hate to admit it but, in all honesty, the outlook is scary and it’s getting worse by the day.

That said, can we be a little kinder when we’re dealing with people? If you’re not ready for a committed relationship, can you state your desire from the start? You do know you can get whatever you want without hiding under a relationship, so why not stay honest to avoid pushing people into depression? Think about it.